When he was a child, Wayne Bala had one person who helped him through the terrible times. Being a CASA has been a way for him to pay it forward!
Wayne worked with diverse youth in different schools for many years. After earning his Master's in Psychology, his oldest asked him what he planned to do with his degree. Wayne was still determining when his son suggested looking at positions in the private school world at a boarding school. And that is where he ended up just a few months later! The private boarding school was an excellent fit for Wayne. He had found his passion in serving others - young people who needed support and encouragement - and someone who saw their potential. Combining his education and life experience, Wayne knew this would be his opportunity to give back. He felt like it was where he belonged.
After retiring from the boarding school three years ago, Wayne was unsure what he would do next, but he knew he wanted to continue serving young people. Wayne heard about CASA through Dr. Phil and wanted to learn more! He realized that being a CASA would align perfectly with his life now and allow him a unique opportunity to connect with youth and encourage them to develop into their best selves and thrive.
Wayne's first case was a boy who suffered years of neglect and abuse in the family home. The boy's case file reported that he had great difficulty relating to people. Wayne looked forward to his first visit with his child but had low expectations. He remembers how excited his child was to meet him, and he was anxiously waiting on the front porch, greeting Wayne with enthusiasm. Wayne has had no trouble connecting with his child, as the young man has many interests. He enjoys telling stories and facts about the animals he encounters at his foster family's farm. Wayne enjoys his regular visits very much. He's been able to encourage him in plans for the future, observe areas to improve (like keeping a tidy room), and ensure he gets the extra help he needs to succeed - he's even been able to tutor him in math.
Many support systems and moving parts are involved in a foster child's case, so it can be challenging to ensure that all those involved keep the momentum going in progress. He remembers the advice given to him by a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL), "You'll be happy if you can just give him/her a little confidence."
One bit of advice Wayne offers to new CASAs is to be yourself! Authenticity and honesty are essential, especially when communicating with kids. People in their lives have let them down. They are keenly aware and know when someone is being 'real.' It's important not to make promises we can't keep - do what you say. Maintaining consistency and establishing trust is critical to building meaningful and positive relationships with kids.
Wayne appreciates the tremendous support and guidance offered by his CASA Supervisor, Christa. He said, "CASA is a great organization. It's the best organization I could've joined".
There is a quote by Forest Witcraft that Wayne sees each morning on his dresser, "One hundred years from now, it will not matter what my bank account was, how big my house was, or what kind of car I drove. But the world may be a little better because I was important in the life of a child." Wayne adds, "If you want to make a REAL difference, become part of CASA."
